DATING

Dating is very famous word in the lives of teenagers. For centuries now teenagers, dating is a natural thing, sometimes they feel proud because often replace their pairs, and even strange when someone who never dating. Dating usually start to appear during early puberty. Dating has a positive impact and negative effects. Positive sides of dating are if we utilize we can become a means to see the potential problems that will arise from the differences in ourselves, different walks of life so that later we and our partners are ready to anticipate the problems that arise if not desired. dating could be causing the spirit of learning for our partners can provide support to continue to learn so that we get a good achievement in school, and if we are in one school can inspire our partners to come to school every day. Dating can also make us more mature in dealing with everything else or problems. Dating makes us a better understanding of the situation makes us not spoiled, impatient, and learns to understand the feelings of others. Many people disagree with dating. Because according to them going out to have many negative impacts including; cause stress relationship with a boyfriend of course not as smooth as originally expected because there are differences in characteristics, backgrounds, and different wants and needs. That caused many problems in the relationship. Usually it will drain your energy and emotions and can cause stress to interfere with daily life. If think look and feel for a moment, perhaps dating was delicious and tasty and bring pleasure. Dating was sometimes makes narrow our intercourse, because we would rather spend time alone with our spouse, and can also lead to dependence on our partners. Negative impact of the worst of the dating is when a consequence-free sex is very bad and embarrassing parents, self-control very important role in dating. I think it can be used courtship as a means to train myself to be honest, loyal, and responsible, if we open with our partners, and want to share thoughts and feelings openly, honestly, come clean with our feelings towards our spouse's behavior. Dating may provide positive or negative impact depending on how we live our relationship. Don’t involve sexual activity in dating relationships because relationships are arguably false.