Monday 11 June 2012

Causes of divorce


There are seven causes of divorce, the first communication, lack of opportunity to communicate an intense, with good quality. Second, Unrealistic Expectations, hope the pair will change after marriage. Third, the 'Power' In Marriage, There are husbands who want to take control, there is a wife wants a set. Fourth, Role Conflict, in marriage there will be division of roles, such as who care for children, who make a living. Fifth, Love charm, some say rather than given a feeling of falling in love, it's better to maintain given the strength of love. Sixth, Affair (The Third) the existence of a third person to make a marriage difficult to sustain. And the Last, Sex this is the smallest of reasons for breakdown of a household.

DATING


Dating is very famous word in the lives of teenagers. For centuries now teenagers, dating is a natural thing, sometimes they feel proud because often replace their pairs, and even strange when someone who never dating. Dating usually start to appear during early puberty. Dating has a positive impact and negative effects. Positive sides of dating are if we utilize we can become a means to see the potential problems that will arise from the differences in ourselves, different walks of life so that later we and our partners are ready to anticipate the problems that arise if not desired. dating could be causing the spirit of learning for our partners can provide support to continue to learn so that we get a good achievement in school, and if we are in one school can inspire our partners to come to school every day. Dating can also make us more mature in dealing with everything else or problems. Dating makes us a better understanding of the situation makes us not spoiled, impatient, and learns to understand the feelings of others. Many people disagree with dating. Because according to them going out to have many negative impacts including; cause stress relationship with a boyfriend of course not as smooth as originally expected because there are differences in characteristics, backgrounds, and different wants and needs. That caused many problems in the relationship. Usually it will drain your energy and emotions and can cause stress to interfere with daily life. If think look and feel for a moment, perhaps dating was delicious and tasty and bring pleasure. Dating was sometimes makes narrow our intercourse, because we would rather spend time alone with our spouse, and can also lead to dependence on our partners. Negative impact of the worst of the dating is when a consequence-free sex is very bad and embarrassing parents, self-control very important role in dating. I think it can be used courtship as a means to train myself to be honest, loyal, and responsible, if we open with our partners, and want to share thoughts and feelings openly, honestly, come clean with our feelings towards our spouse's behavior. Dating may provide positive or negative impact depending on how we live our relationship. Don’t involve sexual activity in dating relationships because relationships are arguably false.

Tuesday 5 June 2012

my first time in yogyakarta


i went to yogyakarta when i 6 years old with my family, we went to malioro, taman sari and also parangtritis beach. i felt very happy because that the first time i visited in yogyakarta city, the city which have a beautiful nature and good culture, i think that yogyakarta is most beautiful city in indonesia. where we in malioboro we fell very interest with the think that sell in malioboro like a batik, sandals, bag, and etc. yogyakarta people makes that alone by their creativity so they can get mone y from their creativity. yogyakarta people are smart because that can improve the quality of yogyakarta city.

Monday 4 June 2012

cell phone for children


In this globalization era there are many technology that can make we easy to do anything, one of them is the cell phone . A cell phone is a tool to communications the most simple and easily to bring. Everybody can have it until the son of being immature is sometimes has a cell phone. Someparents give their children cell phone to facilitates who should not yet to use cell phone and the other hand parents not agree to give that facilitates to their children because parents assume a cell phone impact negatvfe to their children . They assume if too early give a cell phone, a cell phone would disturb education or concentration learned. Some parents think a cell phone is a trend for their children because cell phone now not only for teenagers but also for children. They assume if a cell phone can make the children to be smart because the children can play game or browsing with their cell phone. Another parent give the cell phone too the children because the parent will know where the children are there example the children will be pick up at 10 o’clock. The parent also thinks if they give cell phone they can make their children happy. Although my opinion is cell phone can give negative impact to the children. The parent should think twice to give cell phone to their children because cell phone can make the children lazy to learn. If the children almost use the cell phone it make the children just play their cell phone and not doing anything, if the children ready habits from small until they adult the children also much do that in anytime.Now cell phone not only use for call and send a message but now cell phone has a many fiture as camera and internet acces, with internet the children can found some picture or video for adult that’s very danger for children. In conclusion parents may give cell phone if the parents can supervise their children when the use that cell phone and sociable about good using the cell phone. The parent must always advise the children to not always use the cell phone and remaind the children to study. If the parents are not able to give control and socialization to their child better parents do not give this facility before, wait until they got old enough to use of cell phone.

Thursday 24 May 2012

my weekend in batang

On weekend, my best friend and i went to batang. Batang is a district in Central Java Province is located in the path pantura. We stayed in my uncle’s house, We very enjoyed over there because batang is beautiful city and we spend our time here. On frist day that Saturday, My uncle invited us went to field, we helped my uncle in his field but rain come down, finally we played in the field with rain although our clothes is wet but we not felt it because we felt very happy. After we clean our body we went to the market to bought some food for souvenirs. On Sunday my friend and i went to ujung negoro beach because we very curious with this beach. When we got the beach we were very surprised, because the beach had a beautiful scenery and vast sea. This is a very wonderful beach, a comfortable atmosphere that caused made peaceful. We felt don’t want leaved this beach we very enjoyed this beach. But when we still enjoyed it afternoon had come we must leaved the beach. Finally we must went to home and we back to yogyakarta because our weekend has finished to continue our studied in UMY. Although just moment but we very happy with our weekend in batang.

Tuesday 8 May 2012

story about love Cinta pertama dan terakhir Aku indah, hari ini aku hari masuk pertama sekolah menengah atas, tak ku sangka aku sudah meninggalkan masa SD yang ku rasa cukup banyak kenangan walau pada akhirnya kelas 6 aku harus dimusuhin temen-temenku gara-gara tingkah lakuku yang tomboi sewaktu di sekolah dasar tersebut. Akhirnya masa orientasi siswa pada minggu pertama masukpun dimulai, rasa takut akan kakak kelas yang terkesan muncul akami para murid baru hanya bisa diam dan menuruti semua keinginan mereka walau kadang permintaan mereka aneh dan susah kami dapatkan. Seminggu msa MOS tersebut akhirnya usai kami sudah bisa merasakan belajar dikelas baru aku di kelas 7B, kelas ini sangat bising karena bi9sa disebut mereka adalah anak yang nakal sering elanggar peraturan dan sering tidk mengikuti pelajaran. Masa-masa ini sangatlah melekat pada pikiranku dan mungkin jika aku tua nanti ingatan ini masih bisa ku ingat untuk di ceritsksn ke snsk cucuku nanti :D . Waktu amat sangat cepat berlalu kami akhirnya naik kelas dan kami tidak lagi satu kelas aku sekarang pindah ke 8A di sinilah moment yang gak akan pernah aku lupakan ada seseorang cowok namanya Deni yang deket banget sama aku tapi anehnya pas kelas 1 kami gak pernah akur sering berantem dan ejek-ejekan, tapi anehnya setelah kita satu kelas malah kita menjadi orang yang paling akrab hingga kita kemanapun selalu bersama. Rasanya lucu sekali ketika malam itu dia mengajak aku datang ke pensi sekolah tepatnya tanggal 10 bulan Maret, acara sekolah yang amat sangat ramai karena pada tanggal itu
tepat 64 tahun SMPku berdiri tua sekalikan umurnya. Sungguh mengagetkan keika dia mengungkapkan perasaannya yang dimilikinya kepadaku, da bilang kalau dia suka aku dan ingin menjadi kekasihku tapi tak bisa ku pungkiri jika aku punya rasa yang sama juga terhadap dia, dia menggulangi pertanyaan nya sekali lagi dan aku langsung menjawab kalau aku mau jadi kekasisnya. Setelah kami melewati hari-hari bersama selalu sampai SMA dan sampai sekarang aku kuliah kami tetap enikmati kebersamaan ini, banyak teman yang bosan kepada hubungan kami karena selalu terlihat harmonis, kamipun berharap sampai kapanpun tetap akan bersama.